The most basic relationship that God designed is between and husband and his wife. Do you know how to love your wife as Christ loved the church? Do you know how to submit and revere your husband? What are the conditions that have to take place before you do either? How does someone "earn" your respect? Are you an emotional "shouter" or an emotional "shut downer"? It's difficult to hear God if you are shouting or you have disconnected. You may not have a great marriage but you can have a good one with a little work and the Lord's help. Please pray.