What If You Are The Fan??

Dec 14, 2025    Gary Martin

Are you surrounded with chaos? Sky high emotions? Anxiety? Constant turmoil? Weekly marital spats? Do you yell more at home than at sports events? Could you be the fan? Are you the common denominator in most of your conflict? Well, maybe it's time to do some reflecting on you. Maybe there is a reason you have been divorced 5 times. Maybe there is a reason you have no friends. We need to look at ourselves first and quit blaming everyone and everything else. Maybe you are the fan? Are you slicing and dicing everyone around you?